“You a
ttract what you are”.
I am sure a lot of people have heard about it before and didn’t bother to put a deeper meaning behind it. In terms of relationships you can say that the law of attraction means that people who are insecure, self-abandoning or have a low frequency attract each other while people who are for example positive, caring or self-confident also attract each other. That is a psychological phenomenon and a natural behavior.
Well, let’s look at this scenario: You are a strong, independent, caring and positive person. You have an excellent job, hobbies and awesome friends and one day you meet 2 people who are interested in you at the same time. Both are quite a good catch in terms of looks and are also successful in life. But, while one person is optimistic, kind and open minded the other one sees things usually in a negative aspect, is self-centered and can’t seem to stick to one opinion for long. Who do you think you would choose?! Exactly, person number 1.
In long term we all tend to stick to people who have the same mindset and grind as we do. It is only natural that you are trying to find someone as a friend or partner who has a similar personality and mentality.
You can use the law of attraction also in your daily life or to attract money and success. If you focus on positive thoughts and have goals that you aim to achieve, you will find a way to make them come true. Imagine who you want to be, what you want to have and change it. Most people may don’t believe it but your thoughts and dreams can be a lethal weapon. T.H.