Oh, I’m sure we all know that one guy /girl who suddenly went ghost although you thought everything worked out so far. Could be that this happend
after your thirst date or after a few months. If it happened after just 1 date who cares, but when you are seriously dating or are in a relationship then that’s a whole different story.
I am not lying when I am telling you that this happened to me after 5 months of dating. Yes, 5 months. Everything went well or that was what I believed. We went on dates, I met his friends and his brothers, and we always had fun when we were together. His birthday at that time came up and It was strange that I was not invited. His best friends called me and asked where I was and if something happened, but I could not answer since I had no clue what was going on either. We did meet up again afterwards and I gave him a present (I know, again stupid me) and we celebrated to make up for it. We parted that weekend making plans to drive to another place to do some sightseeing but the day on that promised date he never called nor texted me. The only thing I got a week later was an apology from his best friend. No, not from him, from his best friend and I never heard from him again.
What did I do wrong?
Nothing. Yeah, I am a little bit crazy but who is normal anyway. On a serious note though: no, you are not at fault. Sometimes people just go ghost because they cannot handle the situation and they don’t see a reason in telling you why the end it. But mainly they don’t want to hurt you by telling you the truth. Which would be: I don’t want to be with YOU.
we all know that we will keep texting and calling and ask ourselves for days or weeks if we did something wrong.
What we should do!
Move on and delete his number. I am not talking about him being busy and not getting back at you for 3 days because he told you so, no we are talking about the real “I am going ghost types”. The ones who will never text or call you back and explain why they dumped you. The only thing you will do now is getting rid of the pictures you might took together, delete his number and the chat and enjoy a great movie with your girls or go and watch your favorite football team with your crew, because life is too short. That situation proved how less they care about you and your feelings and that they simply didn’t want to be together with you. T.H.